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128. Fixes confusing computer issues, thereby allowing you to avoid confusing conversations that make you feel dumb with tech support people, even when they are very nice and good tech support people. Maybe they should BE our tech support people. Also, never EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER mail your stuff to you with a letter or a check or fucking ANYTHING. HATE HIM.
127. Does NOT break up with you by mailing your stuff to you with only a crappy letter to explain why. Hate men:<
126. Cooks for you and knows how to choose an appropriate bottle of wine.
125. Does not mysteriously fall off the face of the earth after a handful of good dates.
124. Does NOT have kids. I don't care if you only have them on the weekends, I am NOT interested!
123. Doesn't go on three fabulous dates with you and then "freak out" b/c we might like each other enough to maybe enter a "relationship." (duh duh DUHHHHHHHHHHH)
122. Emails/calls in a timely fashion. Damnit!
121. Doesn't make obnoxious comments about my last name. As if I've never heard any of them before:<
120. Is good with computers. Or at least doesn't totally hate computers. Or at least totally hates computers but doesn't care if YOU don't totally hate computers.
119. If any letting down has to be done for any reason, is able to let you down easy while you maintain a modicum of self-respect -- at the very least, without making it so fucking difficult, stupid or embarrassing. Not that I'm bitter.
118. Would hurry up and find ME already. It's not like Cinti is some vast unpopulated region...geez...
117. Genuinely does not understand our body image issues, because even when we feel less than thin and beautiful, he thinks we're beautiful. However, even though he doesn't agree with our own harsh assessments of ourselves, he is still supportive and caring and says and does the right things to make us feel better on those oh-so-occasional days when we think we shouldn't have eaten that cookie and now we're going to punish ourselves for it.
115. Doesn't make you watch stupid, bloody, violent, disgusting or incredibly boring movies, yet doesn't mind indulging (and enjoying) the occasional chick flick. Examples of excluded movies would be The Thirteenth Warrior (bloody, violent, incredibly boring), Outside Providence (so boring I don't remember the plot), that stupid Spinal Tap movie, American Pie II, Ace Ventura, etc.
114. Supports your bad-ass, radical feminist self
111. Calls.
110. Gets up early to let the dogs out for you and then comes back to bed:> That one's for M.
hmmm...rollercoasters. I concur on that one!
107. Does not sunburn easily
103. Doesn't say it if he doesn't mean it. This goes for absolutely everything.
102. When giving flowers, gives gorgeous flowers, ie does not think carnations are appropriate flowers to give, on any occasion (this item was submitted by someone who is not allowed to post here due to her tpm status. However, I agree, so I'm posting it.)
You're right- you can definitely tell who contributed which items to this list. I would like to absolve myself from 7 (while I do like an occasional grey haired guy, it is not a must), 8 (same goes for older men), 32 (I don't know if I myself tolerate dog fur on everything), 36 (beard = ouch), 44 (magic tricks are cool, but I am SO not ruling someone out for not being skilled in this area), 80 (must tolerate Dar, eh on the Elton thing, as long as he doesn't call him a fairy), and 78 (not a coffee drinker).
Okay, my friend Margot suggested a caveat regarding the vasectomy requirement b/c she thinks her ex- husband thought after his vasectomy, that it gave him "license to go shooting all over town." Please note the addendum. Did I spell that right? Also, I absolve myself of number 36 b/c beard burn on your neck (and thighs) is no laughing matter.
I love this. It's so obvious who's chosen which ones.
Here goes -- these are the 101 original qualities. Numbers go backward so that we can add to the list as needed.
heh heh...
la la, this is our new blog. the formula for the perfect man -- who definitely exists and is not at all contradictory -- will soon be available.
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